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Battle for Marital Souls: Couples Warned Against Divorce

More than 100 couples attending the 2025 annual Christian Couples Fellowship Retreat in Miango were reminded that their marriages are in a spiritual battle for their very souls.

Christian marriage is for life, says Rev. Dr. David Pofi who was giving a charge on purpose-driven Christian homes, emphasizing that it is disturbing when Christians even consider divorce. He attributes this to a lack of understanding about God’s purpose for marriage.

Rev. Pofi emphasizes that God’s purpose for marriage includes procreation, mutual companionship, sexual fulfillment, and raising godly children. He stresses that divorce has no place in Christian marriage, attributing it to hardness of hearts rather than God’s original design. Citing Matthew 19:7-9, he notes that the concession for divorce was given by Moses due to the Israelites’ hard-heartedness, underscoring that divorce is a departure from God’s ideal for marriage.

Rev. Pofi stresses that God hates divorce, which is not part of His will. He laments that divorce has become prevalent even in the church. According to him, divorce often stems from primary causes  like stubbornness and hard-heartedness, and secondary causes which are often symptoms of deeper issues such as selfishness, disagreements and poor communication, which can manifest in couples who claim to follow God but don’t truly submit to Him. In contrast, when Jesus is at the center of a marriage, it can flourish and last a lifetime, as supported by Hebrews 3:12-14.

Rev. Pofi warns couples that when they cite reasons for divorce, they’re often just identifying symptoms. He notes that wherever there’s a ‘because,’ there’s usually a deeper underlying cause. Fault-finding and selfishness, for instance, can be signs of a dying marriage, rather than the root causes themselves.

Rev. Dr. Pofi reiterates that understanding their peculiarities and making adjustments in marriage are crucial to fulfilling God’s purpose. He urged couples to prioritize their relationships and make necessary adjustments from the start to build strong, lasting marriages.

Christian couples were told that no normal Christian will embark on divorce – that divorce is never an option. While divorce is defined as a legal dissolution of a marriage by a court, when couples become isolated and disconnected, they’ve essentially divorced each other in practice, even if not formally.

When couples meet Jesus they never remain the same. Divorce is stepping out of God’s will into Moses contemplation of stubbornness. Marriage is for life. Catch the little foxes in your relationship and your marriage will flourish. Be ready to obey the living word of God.

 

Dr. Falope urges Christian couples to build purpose-driven marriages

Every woman entering marriage must do so with the mindset of being a helper—because the man requires help, and he, in turn, must be willing to accept it. To truly fulfill this role, a wife must understand her husband—his background, temperament, and uniqueness.

At the 2025 Christian Couples Fellowship retreat, Guest Speaker Dr. Segun Falope urged husbands to live with their wives in understanding, recognizing that their wives come from different backgrounds and experiences. “If a man is truly made, the home will be great,” he concluded.

A purpose-driven marriage, Dr. Falope explained, is ordained by God to raise godly offspring. “You can only produce your kind—that is why you must first be built by God,” he said, citing Malachi 2:15 to encourage couples to provide a conducive environment for their children’s well-being. He stressed that raising godly children requires time, attention, and balance between home responsibilities and other pursuits. He advised couples to attend school programs together and be actively involved in monitoring their children’s growth, noting that “to carry children in your bosom is to carry them in your heart.”

Dr. Falope also emphasized that sexual fulfillment within marriage is an integral part of a purpose-driven home. He cautioned couples not to reduce intimacy to material transactions or defile it by introducing pornography or perverse practices. “Sex is a powerful glue in marriage,” he said. To husbands, he warned against infidelity, urging them not to “drink water from another man’s well.”

 

 

Tree Planting at CCF Village, a Huge Success

A tree planting exercise held at the CCF Couples’ Village on Saturday, June 21, 2025, was a resounding success, thanks to the generosity of CCF members and the presence of some of its leaders.

The event saw the planting of numerous trees, marking a significant step towards environmental conservation and sustainability. CCF leadership expresses its heartfelt gratitude to all donors and attendees for their contributions to this noble cause, and calls for continued support.

As the trees take firm roots, there’s need to prime them up for the dry season. They will require extra care to thrive. The CCF Village community welcomes further donations of plants, particularly during the month of June. Contributions towards tree maintenance are also greatly appreciated.

The CCF Village fellowship and community looks forward to your continued support in nurturing a sustainable environment for generations to come.



God snatched me from the spirit of death

ON the 13th of June 2024, I got a text from my daughter wishing me a Happy Birthday. She missed it for the 23rd.  The devil planned to make that day my last day on earth, but God said no. On my way home after work, I met a terrible hold-up with trailers lined up to about 2 kilometers, but I was able to navigate and got myself free from the hold-up. At the point where I wanted to take off, beheld a trailer in front of my lane, face to face to crush me to death but God came forth and diverted the trailer to hit my car sideways. Later, I got to know that the brake failed, and the driver decided to switch to the opposite lane shouting ba braki, ba braki. The scene of the accident was telling. I want to thank God for the opportunity to live again. His name be praised, glorified, honored, and magnified forever and ever. Amen.

Foster Okwu

2024 Retreat helped us fall more deeply in love

THE experience from this retreat has helped us to fall more deeply in love with God, ourselves, children, and in-laws because it was inspiring, informative, and faith-enriching – spiritually, maritally, intellectually, and physically. It was truly a unique experience in the serene and conducive environment of Miango, where the resource persons carefully unloaded their wealth of experiences with the designed lines of activities. The biggest difference is learning to trust God at all times.

Patience & Nanpan Jimwan